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50k and Beyond: The past, present and future; and the Next Step (In Multiple Parts)

Part I:

"I make no apologies, I do not intend to be rude, or crass, or insensitive, I just say it as I see it. If I am wrong, I will admit it and make a  TON of apologies" - Me.

Important Facts about me, my operating principles:

People First. Always. That is my rule. I meet a person, I talk to a person, I decide if I like that person, then I may learn about that person from the person, or from research later, but before I ever “research” a person, I meet them. Sometimes I don’t research at all. Sometimes that upsets people.  People first. It is how I operate, always have, always will (unless I am doing an interview which rarely happens, then I research, or meeting a Head of State or something, can’t seem totally clueless).

Genuine. I am me, I make no apologies, I would take a bullet for most anyone I know. I am fiercely loyal and protective of my friends. The amount of inside info I have in my head makes the likelihood that my head will explode a distinct possibility, but it stays there, or I die with it.

Committed. I am committed to the causes I believe in, and just as fiercely as I am committed to my friends. I should probably also be committed and/or medicated at times.

Funny. I need the funny, I want the funny. Humor in everything I do. If you don’t laugh, I failed.

That being said…

I attended an amazing event yesterday. The State of Delaware has an Emerging Technology Center, and in that they coach people through the steps of building a successful business, to encourage entrepreneurship, and expand the economy in doing so.  I was asked by the Delaware Economic Development Office to be an instructor in their Boot Camp this Saturday to bring my social media expertise to them in a way that would help the selectees business grow.  Ken Anderson is a great guy and it is difficult, no- impossible, to say no to him.  Last night was the “Meet and Greet” at Delaware State University in Dover.

I was exhausted when I arrived, but was quickly reenergized by the excitement and buzz in the room.   I took some time and sat at various tables talking to the program participants, listening to what they were proposing and seeing if I could help them to accomplish their goals.  I heard some remarkable ideas, a new Daycare concept, new neurological drug developments, a cool place to hang out, a college transportation system, alternative energy, and more. What an amazing group of people, with such diverse ideas.  We moved into presentations, and each instructor spoke for a few minutes about what we do, and why we do it. Then it was time for the selectees (there is an application and selection process, this is a very big honor for these folks) to stand up and tell them about themselves and their business concept.  Wow.  I was so moved, so impressed, and I only wanted to think of who I could connect them each with to help them succeed.  I looked at my Blackberry, Twitter was the answer, but not the option.

I was beyond frustrated as I sat there, taking photos, and waiting. I would ask people to tweet for me later when I got home.  When I did, I had little luck finding people around to help. I wanted to share... these people deserved that,  someone out there might be interested.  My hands were tied, or my fingers were (past-tense, my fingers still ARE tied). I can not express in words the sadness and emptiness I felt at that moment, and I felt all night, until this morning. I felt as though I was a singer without a voice, a musician without an instrument (yes I have melodramatic tendencies, not too obvious huh?), this was a problem.  I had to resolve this.  The $50,000 stumbling block stood in the way of the 50,000 tweet.

When I awoke this morning I had a sense of peace and zen. As I had slept I had decided I knew what the resolution was.  With the advice from a friend, I was determined to summarize, resolve, and move on. This is what this blog is about.

The History:
(To be continued…)

Apr 16, 2010
Tom Fruehstorfer said...
First I admit I know nothing about fund raising. That being said it seems to me that you have not sold your charity. You've asked people to give to 34 girls because you think it is a good thing. You have not said why this is a good cause. I would suggest you sell them, not you. I would be happy to tweet about your cause if you want to share tweetable comments with me by e-mail. Just my 2-cents.

Tom Fruehstorfer
@TomFrueh
TomFru@gmail.com

Apr 16, 2010
Toby Boyce said...
An Amazing tale from an amazing lady. My offer to walk through Delaware, Ohio, in a dress still stands if we can get the support.